Youth Homelessness

Community, Culture, Depression, Homelessness, Juvenile Crime, Life, Safety, Trouble

Let me tell you some statistics so you understand the severity of youth homelessness in America.

  • approximately 50,000 young people in the U.S. sleep on the streets for 6 months or more
  • estimated 550,000 unaccompanied youth are homeless longer than one week
  • 39% of the entire homeless population is under 18
  • 1 in 7 young people will run away from home
  • the average age a teen becomes homeless is 14 years
  • teens 12-17 are more likely to become homeless than adults
  • 50% of youth who are homeless said their parents either told them to leave, or knew that they were leaving and didn’t care

When we talk about homeless youth, we’re talking about young people age 24 and under, although most of them are about 14-17. A lot of kids become homeless when their families become homeless, but most of them are either kicked out or run away.

Youth run away or are homeless for several reasons. Sometimes it has something to with their involvement in the juvenile justice or child welfare systems. Many homeless kids were foster kids, but they aged out and were discharged with no housing or income support. Sometimes they are being physically, sexually, and/or emotionally abused at home and they eventually decide to leave. Sometimes there is some kind of severe family conflict going on, whether their parents are addicts, or abuse each other in front of the kids, or something else that’s unhealthy. Sometimes these youth are neglected or even abandoned by their parents.

Obviously, unaccompanied homeless youth are much more likely to get mixed up in bad things than other kids. Their experiences are also different than those of homeless kids who live with their families. Although those kids still have some tremendous issues and things to deal with, at least they have family by their side; unaccompanied youth are all on their own.

These kids, on their own and on the streets, are vulnerable to a range of awful, negative experiences, including exploitation and victimization. Because of their age and circumstances, they aren’t usually able to (legally) make enough money to meet their basic needs; so many, many homeless youth trade sex for money, clothing, and food. They also steal, and are much more likely to engage in criminal behavior and get involved in the juvenile justice system. They’re also often severely depressed, understandably so, and they drink and do drugs to mask the pain.

Homeless youth also have a hard time getting an education, because of the school system’s legal guardianship requirements, residency requirements, and requirements for proper records. Not to mention, sometimes kids just don’t have transportation to school. A lack of education certainly makes it harder for these kids to get on their feet and take care of themselves.

Isn’t it sickening when you think about it? Did you realize how many kids are homeless in our country, and not only how many are homeless, but how many are homeless BY THEMSELVES? Can you believe some of the circumstances these kids are in? Can you believe that a parent would kick their child out of their home, knowing that they have nowhere safe to go? Isn’t it awful imagining what they go through out there?

We cannot continue to allow this to happen to youth in our country. This is happening to far too many kids, and it shouldn’t be happening at all. We need more programs with emergency shelters available to young people. We need a health care plan designed specifically for homeless youth so their needs can be taken care of. We need programs that will help these youth regain stability, and especially programs with staff who are trained to break through their walls of fear and cynicism. We need to help these young people get an education, and help them find jobs so they can support themselves and gain skills they need to be successful. We need to educate our community so everyone is aware of what’s going on. We need to coach parents to be GOOD parents and take care of the needs of their children, rather than throwing them out on the streets and abandoning them. We need to take care of the children in our country.

Here at Youth Outreach in Newberg, Oregon, we offer a variety of services to runaway and homeless youth in Yamhill County.

  1. We have a Safe Shelter program, in which we offer emergency shelter for youth ages 11-17 who run away, are kicked out, are homeless, or maybe just need some time away from their parents. We have a 24 hour hotline the youth can call in case they need shelter after hours. We pick them up wherever they are, and take them to stay with a family in our community, where they’ll have a warm bed and food to eat.
  2. For youth ages 18-21, we have a Transitional Living Program for those who are homeless or kicked out. We set them up in an apartment for up to a year and a half (at no cost to them), and we help them find a job, save money, go to college if they’d like, and accomplish whatever other goals they have so they can be successful.
  3. We have a Street Outreach program that allows us to reach youth in our community. Every day, we send a team of three staff/volunteers out to tell youth about our services. We go downtown, to parks, and other places where youth often hang out. We carry a backpack full of food, toiletries, socks, and anything else a homeless youth may need.
  4. We recently started a Jobs Program. We have a Job Development Specialist who is available to help teens who need help finding a job, creating a resume, or practicing interview skills. She has monthly “Jobs Workshops” where she goes over different aspects of what it takes to get a job.
  5. In downtown Newberg, we have a Teen Drop-In Center that is designed to keep teens off the streets and in a safe, positive environment with adults who care. We have board games, video games, pool, fooseball, and other activities. We plan fun parties and events. We give the youth snack everyday after school, and have food bags available for homeless youth who come in. We have Study Hall twice a week, and offer free tutoring. We also offer peer support groups and prevention classes every month, and discuss things like safe dating, teen drinking, how to quit smoking, etc. Our drop-in center is open until 9 pm, giving teens a safe place to hang out even after dark.

The goal is to completely end youth homelessness by 2020. It’ll take a lot of work, but we need to get these kids out of danger and give them a better life.


Stay Drug-Free this Summer!

Health, Uncategorized

Even though summer is great because you don’t have to go to school and you can just hang out with friends, it can get boring, especially if you and your friends do the same thing every other day. However, there are several inexpensive activities you can do with your favorite posse that are safe, fun, and substance-free (alcohol and drugs).

Dust off the board games! Although many of the classics, like Monopoly and Trivial Pursuit, are timeless  not everyone can stand sitting around for hours waiting for someone to win. So, look around for games like:

  •  Cranium, which is full of competitive fun that combines Charades, Pictionary, and Trivial Pursuit!
  • Battle of the Sexes, which pits males and females together to see who knows more about the opposite’s hobbies and favorite past times! (Note: it is suggested that it is made for ages 12 and up.)
  • Jenga, but put a spin on it by making truth or dare statements and writing them on each square.
  • Apples to Apples, which is a funny word game that can make anyone laugh at the outrageous cards.
  • Scene It?  is also a great game to grab because it is more interesting than hearing someone read questions from a card…it truly is interactive.

Make your own home videos! Got a knack for creative ideas? Get your friends together and make your own movie, then post to YouTube!

Go to a local coffee shop and listen to live music! Usually it is free to get in and the local bands make it unique.

Make your own songs and start a band! Do you and your friends like to jam together? Make it into a big deal and throw a garage concert for friends, family, and neighbors to enjoy.

There are plenty of other cool and fun things to do out there that are inexpensive and can be spontaneous! Check online for more ideas or come out to Youth Outreach in Newberg to hang out!

Getting a Grip on Grief



Although many of you are still “young” you have probably already experienced death, loss and grief.  I have talked to a few youth in our area who have recently lost close friends. I thought I would give you a little information on grieving. I too have lost someone very close to me and wonder what am I suppose to do, how I am supposed to feel, and when will it get better. Unfortunately I still do not know all the answers. I have been looking and researching this topic for myself as well as for you guys and I have come to the conclusion that  there is no cookie cutter process or answer for grief. You have to take your own journey on dealing with your loss. I do know that there are a lot of resources available to help. The Dougy Center is a center located in Portland that helps youth and teens after someone close has died. Looking through their website I came across their Bill of Rights for Grieving Teens and wanted to share it with you. Although you may not have all the answers you do have rights.

The Bill of Rights of Grieving Teens

By Teens at The Dougy Center

A grieving teen has the right….
…to know the truth about the death, the deceased, and the circumstances.
…to have questions answered honestly.
…to be heard with dignity and respect.
…to be silent and not tell you her/his grief emotions and thoughts.
…to not agree with your perceptions and conclusions.
…to see the person who died and the place of the death.
…to grieve any way she/he wants without hurting self or others.
…to feel all the feelings and to think all the thoughts of his/her own unique grief.
…to not have to follow the “Stages of Grief” as outlined in a high school health book.
…to grieve in one’s own unique, individual way without censorship.
…to be angry at death, at the person who died, at God, at self, and at others.
…to have his/her own theological and philosophical beliefs about life and death.
…to be involved in the decisions about the rituals related to the death.
…to not be taken advantage of in this vulnerable mourning condition and circumstances.
…to have guilt about how he/she could have intervened to stop the death.

This Bill of Rights was developed by participating teens at The Dougy Center and does not represent “official” policies of the Center.

The Dougy Center is  one option, as is Youth Outreach, but some other places to turn to include your church, your school counselor, your family and friends.

Find someone you trust and let them support you.

The only advice I can give is to take a deep breath and a small step forward.